For most teens, their social lives are the most important thing. While many teens report positive experiences with social media, including making new friends, feeling more connected to their friends, and getting support from online pals, it can be anxiety-producing, too. Common Sense Media's Census found that lots of teens use social media every day, but they don't like it as much as they like other media. That may indicate that they feel pressured to stay on top of their social lives so they're not left out.

Try to suss out your teen niece’s or nephew’s feelings about social media. If they are always on it due to FOMO (fear of missing out), feel worse after using it, and it's affecting other areas of their life, it may be time to step in. Try to suggest limited use and help them gain perspective by getting then involved in other activities. They might even enjoy other online social sites that are productive and positive, such as movie and book fan sites or social sites such as Pinterest, which are less about collecting likes or fans. If they are feeling depressed or have other signs of anxiety (withdrawal from social or family activities, falling grades, a dramatic change in behavior), suggest that their parents contact their pediatrician for help.

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Published: April 20, 2016